Mar 19, 2009
Have you ever Loved???
“Have you ever been in love?" Horrible, isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable.... It opens up your heart which means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor so that nothing can hurt you. And then one fine day, one stupid person, no different from us wanders into your life...You give them a piece of you... although, they never asked for it. Next, they do something dumb one day and then your life isn't your own, anymore.......... Love takes hostages. It gets inside you!!! It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts, it kills and just sucks the life out of the most lively people around. Not just in your imaginations........ Not just in your thoughts........ It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain.
They, who say that love is blind are lamely wrong . On the contrary, nothing - not even the smallest detail - escapes the eyes, one sees everything in the loved one, notices everything, but melts it all into one flame with the great and simple: "I love you.”
Why does that happen? Why is it so? Why do we love? Why can't we just live without it? If all that it ends in, is Pain and Loneliness........ I simply, don't know why???
And then they say, "LOVE IS ABOUT FACING YOUR BIGGEST FEARS" What fears are we talking about here?